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Friday, September 15, 2006

West High Class of '??

I am going to my high school reunion.
I don’t know why. I’ve never gone before. I’ve never wanted to go.
But for some reason I feel like I should.


I’m looking forward to it. I'm old enough that I'm not stressed about the usual things: I didn’t go on a diet, I didn’t buy a new outfit, I didn't have my nails done (ok, I never do). I'm comfortable going just as myself. And I think I’ve developed enough social skills to talk to people with whom I have a shared history, even if I don't remember them.

I’m glad that I never did anything to be ashamed of. I have no worries about who I might see or what they might remember.

When I was in high school I never hooked up with a particular group of friends. I was friends with everyone in my class. I liked it that way.

But when I left high school, I really left. I didn’t even glance back. I was so excited to be out of there and off to college and on to other things that I didn't stay in touch with anyone. It's been a long time since I've even thought of high school.

I’ve asked myself why I’m going. It’s certainly not to impress anyone. I don't think I'm trying to recapture the past. It's not even to rejuvenate old friendships that I don't have time for.

I think it’s more like gathering the puzzle pieces of your life and finishing the picture. It's about acknowledging the people and experiences that have made you what you are. It's about coming full circle.

I'm just guessing here. I'm really going just because I have a strong feeling that I should.

I'm even going all by myself (maybe to prove I really am a grown-up).

I may never know why I'm going, but it will be good to go home, and I plan on having a lot-o'-fun.


We are the Wildcats, the mighty, mighty Wildcats.
Everywhere we go people want to know
Who we are, and we tell them,
We are the Wildcats, the mighty, mighty Wildcats........

2 comments:

Elizabeth said...

I didn't go to my 10 year high school reunion mostly because, like you, I left and didn't look back. Maybe after 40 years I might want to go back too! :)

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